How to raise a child-choleric?
If you see-bustler kid who is flying somewhere and can not hear anyone, if you are on the playground noticed crumbs, which rested on something else, and does not agree to any arrangements, while for some reason you phrase comes to mind: "Yes, this is the character!" - then we can say with confidence that in front of you a bright representative of the choleric.
Dynamism, activity, mobility, striving forward, the desire to be a leader, frequent changes of mood, persistence, energy, impulsiveness, impatience, forgetfulness, endurance - all these qualities are inherent in people (including children) with a choleric temperament. In fact, this type is often referred to as unbalanced. After all, the representatives of choleric capable of withstanding significant physical and psycho-emotional stress, and they are very irritable and fickle in their decisions and attitudes.
The child - a typical choleric
The kid is always in motion, somewhere in a hurry, running, flying. This is not the type that could easily go with her mother to the store and ride in a cart until all purchases will be made. This crumbs all you need to run round, it is desirable to inspect and even touch. Have you tried to ban something child-choleric? It's just a pointless exercise, because your ban will be perceived with hostility. It sometimes choleric rapid, incoherent, interrupted. Not having time to finish a sentence, the child is already starting the second, often swallowed by the end of words, skip whole words, the genuinely perplexed and often angry when he can not understand and asked to repeat. manner of speaking very loud. This baby can hear even in a large crowd more emotionally calm peers.
has a fairly quick-tempered and impulsive character. Accordingly, there are frequent mood swings can be several times to change its decision. This is the type that can not be foreseen. Like the risk, sometimes even unnecessary, but, possessing incredible courage just can not help but try to do what they want to at some point.
Place the child on naps, however, as on the night, it is extremely difficult, because under the influence of emotions and impressions, he does not sleep, often waking up in a dream can cry, laugh, talk, somewhere "to escape". Wake up to become your mood. However, the baby-choleric has many positive qualities. He is bold, persistent, fearless, purposeful, self-confident and energetic.
How to organize the educational process?
By virtue of his emotion and energy of children can not be idle. To channel the energy in the right direction, accustom your child to useful matters, for example, engage with cleaning the house or apartment. But to throw out the energy that hits over the edge, perfect to send their children in some sports section. Active exercise will not only help relieve the baby emotionally, but will also help develop a sense of self-control and discipline.
Choleric have weak memory, attention span and inability to sit still. To organize the work of the process data, need the help of parents. For example, Creative arts, painting, sculpture, folding puzzles, reading books together will help to take the baby for a while. Emotionality and temper to be suppressed in a gentle manner. According to the recommendations of child psychologists, as soon as the parent of the kid caught in the mood of aggression or a bad mood, you should switch his attention to something else, to the emotional tension eased a little.