Professions that require special stress
Say: tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are. This saying can be not less than the true proportion of modified so Tell me what you're doing, and I'll tell you what you are. In fact, after quite a long time (5 years or more) profession invariably imposes on the identity of the person corresponding to the mark, including the negative, though, it would seem, in essence nothing inappropriate has not. Here is a small list of such professions.
Usually, people choose this profession is very rigorous and hypochondriac ( "What if something happens ..."). Over time, these qualities often reach the point of absurdity, that pushes the "normal" people, because even in personal relationships lawyers begin to look for some kind of trick. Finally, giperinformirovannost lawyers can easily turn them into gloomy "nerds."
Known joke that "accountant" - a "diagnosis". Indeed, some people in this profession so get used to your business image that even transferred meticulousness and "love" to the figures of privacy. We opened all the accountants to do precisely and correctly, so that a new extreme and causes them fear and very troubling. Over time, many people in this profession turned into terrible snobs and bores. To avoid this, the accountants must be periodically break away from the market and meet more people, because otherwise there is a risk of being second Akaki Bashmachkin (hero of the story of Nikolai Gogol's "Overcoat"), whose world consisted only of letters and commas.
3. A doctor
This refers to doctors who in their practice are faced with serious illness, suffering and death. The doctor takes on a very great responsibility for patients. Often, indifference, cynicism and emotional closeness physicians only forced psychological defense against stress, time and again arise on the basis of continuous monitoring of suffering. Psychologists recommend that people with such a profession share more internal problems and feelings with loved ones, and do not forget about compassion, which are waiting for relatives. Utilities trouble and care should be left at work and outside it best to avoid additional stress.
4. A soldier
As is known, the military - people strictest discipline. Unfortunately, they often "build" even their loved ones, becoming the home of the dictator, and even a tyrant. Psychologists say that the military eventually acquire this type of professional deformation of the person, which is almost impossible to correct. The officer - a way of life.
People who have chosen the profession of journalist, as a rule, very modest and prefer to remain in the shadows ( "He's in the main event, and I just take interviews"). In addition, they are curious. Of course, journalistic practice these qualities develops, the result of what is good is not always. Man can hit in self-centeredness and outright faux pas, it can form a pathological setting, he does not live his life.
The people of this profession are often arrogant. As a rule, they have inflated self-esteem, and is not dependent on the degree of professionalism. It is easy to be significant against the background of the child - personality, yet far from revealing, and sometimes self-esteem of the teacher results in authoritarianism - if not in relation to the school's wards, then with respect to the household. Teachers especially need the ability to put oneself in the other person, as well as the cultivation of humility and tolerance.
It is no secret that many people who decided to become a psychologist, first of all want to understand ourselves, and not in the problems of future patients. In fact, because of the constant contemplation of another's deviation from its own "cockroaches" such people can never get rid of. Moreover, personal problems are often compounded. And because of the knowledge of human nature psychologists easily become manipulators, shamelessly using others for their own gain.
Psychologists should be a clear distinction between his professional and personal life, and learn not to take people as the only material for the next study.
To sell a product, especially illiquid - is an art, in one way or another causes a person to be cunning, sly, and sometimes just to deceive. Experienced salespeople - people are usually quite savvy. Another disadvantage of the workers professions - excessive talkativeness and excessive artistry, which may cause unnatural in everyday life. Such people often recommend disengage from thoughts about work.
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