Phrases that do not need to talk to your child

• Phrases that do not need to talk to your child

What did not lash out parents in the heat of a quarrel with the kids! And some reports about it and just so that the offspring do not forget the main thing. Here is a list of phrases that parents really should not say out loud.

1. "Do you live under my roof, then follow my rules"

These words are demeaning a child, but even worse is that he can remember them - and leave this to the roof before it would be necessary.

2. I was so brought up, and it was good

Firstly, it is unclear whether all properly done your parents. Secondly, it is necessary to take into account the specific characteristics of the child, rather than just copying the familiar.

3. "I hate it when you do that"

Children miss half of the phrase on deaf ears, and only the "I hate you."

4. "You - like your father!"

This phrase shows the child that he is not only wrong, but also to the other parent. These words can help to ensure that the child will try to please everyone.

5. "Be like a child * other *"

Children are not useful to compare with the other, because each its own set of strengths and weaknesses.

6. "You're so smart!"

This seems to be a great phrase can generate a child feel that he has a gift, thanks to which it is not necessary to do anything. Children begin to avoid situations where they do not show themselves in the best light. It should instead say, "You worked well, and everything turned out."