When broken dreams ...
You make plans, strive for something new, bright and interesting, every day moving towards your dreams and desires ... But life likes to strike at the very moment when they least expect it ...
Everything went wrong, as we would like. At such times, a tidal wave of hopelessness, despair and loss. How to live on? To strive for? And does it make sense to dream again, to plan, to live these illusions? Indeed, at one point could collapse the whole world - someone did not regret, did not pay attention to "muddy boots" paced the treasured dream.
Probably, almost everyone is faced with a similar situation, when it seems that life has no meaning. Unfortunately, statistics show that the majority of the people are broken, their inner world is destroyed and there is no more strength to dream, to wait, to hope and believe. These people choose the way of existence and just "go with the flow", no waiting and hoping. However, there is the small (in comparison with the first) a small group of optimists who, shaking off all the bitterness, resentment and frustration rise up and make a small step forward. Such steps require a lot before the goal is reached, but they (those people) will find it necessary, on the way to making ready to overcome any obstacles and hardships.
How to deal with their emotions, to experience disappointment and not break?
The emotional state of
Emotions - the first thing that a tidal wave, when it seems that at one point collapsed all around. One should try to let go of the situation, we should not seek a solution at a time when instead of common sense overwhelmed resentment, despair, bitterness, frustration and hopelessness. The morning is wiser than the evening! Should listen to this saying, and not to make any decisions hastily.
Ability to pause
Pause - the right solution. After the first emotions subsided, began to take on a life of paint again, we can calmly analyze the whole situation. Often, the best decision is almost on the surface, just turn the attention and reason enough.
The importance of support for
Any trouble and disappointment is easier to experience with someone. When there is a tower of strength (mother or father, brother or sister, a loved one, best friend or a close friend), it is easier to accept what has happened, to experience and to let go. Listen to advice of a loved one, and together try to find the right solution.
The new dream - new plans
Dashed dreams? Grieved a little? And now is the time to get together mentally, think things and move on. To life has become happier, would like again to strive for something, do not be afraid - boldly propose new desires, set goals and achieve them, dream and go to their own desires.
Never give up!
Consider the situation from a different angle, do not take everything as a personal tragedy happened - happened, draw conclusions and live on. Do not be afraid to dream! Experience of past losses and disappointments make you more stable, resilient, purposeful. Remember that surrender easily, but to find the strength to go to the purpose, not everyone can. Do not give up! Never, under any circumstances!
Have you noticed that it is persistent and purposeful in life can achieve something good and important. However, it all does not present fate of a gift, they achieve it. No wonder they say that a person falls as a share of tragedies and suffering, how much he is able to endure. If you do not give up and do not give up - your dreams will come true!