What is worth remembering those who are afraid to die alone

In our culture there was a not a pleasant image of a woman without a relationship. At best, this careerist with a bunch of cats. One of the biggest fears that impose a free people - a death in solitude. We tell why this absurd idea should definitely not be a reason to start a relationship and create a family.

Marriage is not greatly increases your chances of avoiding a lonely old age

What is worth remembering those who are afraid to die alone

The argument that the husband will help brighten up your old age, broken pieces of the divorce statistics. More than half of couples break up long before the first gray hairs and the last sex.

The very idea of ​​marriage once and for all still sounds appealing, especially since some of it is even possible. But bind free life with the lonely old age - a great exaggeration. Quite the contrary - the later you get married, the more likely that it will last the rest of your days.

Men tend to die earlier than women

Another grim, but the honest fact is that in Russia, the mortality gap between men and women is one of the biggest. On average, women live 11 years longer than men. Therefore, "and died in one day" no more than a fabulous metaphor for us.

For children too, it is better not to count

What is worth remembering those who are afraid to die alone

Explain the need for the birth of children procreation is no longer relevant. But about the coveted glass of water legend is still alive, and after 25 years it is repeated more insistently girls. Bear children as a support, pledge a comfortable old age or entertainment - a very risky decision. How many kids grow indifferent to their native people go to other cities and countries, or simply believe that they owe nothing. If we think in practice, contribute to the bank is much more reliable.

Becoming a mother is worth because you want it, ready for it, you have something to share with a new person. All calculations that he will become a millionaire, fulfill your dream of a career of the actress or simply always be loyal assistant - a solid lottery.

You do not know, when you die

Your chance to die alone in old age is not more likely than to die in the company of two dozen people who travel with you on the bus, or in the arms of gorgeous handsome in the midst of passionate caresses. In other words - God knows when and how you leave this world.

The good news is that you can not control death, but it can affect your life. And if now you comfortably hold it alone, what's the difference, what will happen in old age?

However, we are never alone

Today loneliness - rather a conscious choice than a necessity. Technology can not interrupt the social contacts, even if you may gather in age to the space station.

Rather than tying all hope to one person, try to spare energy to others. Maintain contact with old friends, make new acquaintances, to surround themselves with inspiring interesting people. You'll never be lonely if she did not want. And in difficult moments, you can support not only romantic partner, but also the family, friends or bystanders.

To live happily is more important than living with someone

What is worth remembering those who are afraid to die alone

In the culture of too much focus on the fear of dying alone. How about to fear an unhappy life? Staying in an abusive or just uncomfortable for your relationship, only to not be one - not the best choice. It is high time to shift the guidance and strive for a harmonious life, not a mechanical implementation of the standard plan: husband, children, grandchildren.

This is just another way to shame the single women

And finally, what is worth remembering the words of the lonely death - just another way to get people without a relationship to feel inferior. Another manipulation to instill fear, and in your power not to succumb to it.

Do you have a fear of dying alone?