7 things you can not control

You may be faced with unpleasant acquaintance at a party. You'll have to defend a half hour in line at the store because of a frozen box office. At least once in life every encounter with the abolition of the aircraft flight. Perhaps you believe that fate will bring you one day with someone who will make you happy, but it is still going to be upset when life present no surprises, which can not be influenced. Each of us in his control-freak, but we must not forget that the only thing you can control all - itself. You can take responsibility for their decisions, policies and reactions to what is happening, and nothing more. Here are a few things that you need to learn to let go.

1. Changes

On the one hand, one of the worst parts of our lives is that everything changes, even something that brings you pleasure. On the other hand, it is both the best side of life - is that nothing stays the same, which means that even the most stressful week will not last forever.

As you did not try to seize the time, do you have it will not work. Every morning you get up, to create a completely new memories. You need to learn to go along with the flow and notice the change as an opportunity to do something new and make life more meaningful.

2. Weather

One day you wake up, and the window will be pouring rain wall. Your plans for the trip have to move, or even leave the house early so as not to be late for work because of traffic jams. First, you'll be extremely upset and even write angry messages in Twitter, and this is absolutely normal, the main thing - do not let this feeling persist throughout the day. Look for a nice side of what happened, let go of everything, for which clings and little Shifted my schedule. Inclement weather - an excellent opportunity to check out how to save on your vacation, put in order documents or call mom.

3. Traffic

You must always be prepared for the fact that the situation on the road to change. Perhaps, now, before you leave home, you check with congestion map, and it's quite a sensible habit. But sometimes the situation is out of control - case of an accident or must pass the presidential motorcade on your way. You're stuck in traffic flows and immediately go over to the stress mode. The wait can be awful, but much worse is that you can not sit back and accept this situation. You arrive at the place when you can, and angry glances at the clock and others did not correct the situation.

4. Past

All that has happened - can not be controlled. You can let the memories that upset you, go away, but you can hold on to them and feed them their present life. Just make sure you're doing what's best for you, right now, and do not think about what kind of person was before.

5. The future of

You can easily make a plan for the next five years, and even hard to follow it. The problem is that the path will certainly happen some change in conditions not recorded in the schedule. Maybe you fall in love with a new man, or suddenly find that another city you feel much more comfortable than the one in which you are living now. You may want to change your job, or even be able to realize the most cherished dreams. All this is completely unexpected - and in this lies the best surprises of my life. Learn to let go of what you think should be in life, and focus on what is actually there in your hands.

6. The judgments of others

Perhaps you're already in a relationship, which at one point suddenly no longer seem ideal. It comes a conversation, and you discover that your partner does not agree with your opinion. You can spend hours to convince him to their cause, resulting in hundreds of arguments that he could look at the situation differently - but not the fact that this will lead to any result. Learn to let go of such situations, focus on how you yourself react to any disagreement with your point of view.

7. The happiness of others

Surely you want your family and friends to be happy, but you're not able to control it. You can send them a funny video or offer together to go on a vacation to relieve the tension, but their problems they have to deal with on their own. You should focus on its own vision of the world. You can help them see the good side of life, but then stands back off and continue to go about their business. Remember that you can not play the role of Fate, or Sospita Matchmakers, and you do not need to carry the weight of the world on his shoulders.

What would you like to influence in their lives, but do not have the opportunity?