How are the visits from representatives of 7 different nations
According to statistics, marriage agencies, each of the second inter-ethnic marriage breaks up after five or six years of marriage. As a rule, people simply can not find a common language. But things could be different if the woman carefully shopped future husband even on the first date.
Should I wait for calm from the Italians, the French and the generosity of the romance from the Germans? Why Swedes prefer extreme-bye, and the Chinese never served lady coat?
In July 2014 50 years of marriage, said one of the most famous couples of Italian cinema - Adriano Celentano and Claudia Mori. They met on the set of the film "A strange type," but first the idol of millions of girls did not make any impression on Claudia. Great love story began in one of the clubs where Adriano invited her to a concert. He sang a soulful song about heartbreak, and then jumped down from the stage, went to Claudia and all confessed to their feelings. From the club they left together. Public recognition Celentano was not shocked local audiences.
The Italians did not hesitate to show their feelings in front of others. They do not skimp on the flowers, give generous gifts and dazzling ladies most extraordinary deeds. Can easily jump from the bridge into the river to prove his courage, or come on a visit to his beloved through the window. It does not matter that it will have to overcome three floors on a drainpipe.
By the way, the Italians - some of the most persistent suitors. If they liked the woman, they will give her more and more attentions, is striking unusual declarations of love and crazy things. As a rule, these tactics will eventually lead to a long-awaited victory.
According to one version, the first Valentine in 1415 came up with the Duke of Orleans. At the time he was imprisoned in the prison, and having fun, writing love letters to his own wife. Not surprisingly, valentines become so popular and in modern French - a great sign of attention for a few cents.
It is no secret that the French men are now famous all over the world not only for his gallantry, but also qualities such as thrift and practicality. What about their pragmatic attitude to gifts.
According OpinionWay center, 57% of French people are ready this year to re-sell the "extra" presents. Most trade in second-hand gifts flourishing among young people. 63% of French people from 18 to 24 years old prefer to turn unneeded gifts into cash.
Care for women, they are also very practical. Flowers are given rarely and in exceptional cases, as, indeed, and the little unexpected gifts. The first date is prescribed, usually in the morning or afternoon. A good opportunity, for example, combine a lunch break with a romantic rendezvous. Of course, in France, the lady will pay for itself.
Traditionally German men distinguished reticence, practicality and sobriety of mind. German is not inclined to give empty promises. If he proposes marriage - then it is here to stay. If calling for a date, it is not out of politeness, but because it really wants. He would not promise to call back if not configured to communicate. When invited on a date, then clearly he will appoint the time and place of the meeting. However, this behavior is not to say that the Germans are far from romantic. Just a woman in Germany had become too emancipated. This is evidenced by results of a study of the Institute of Public Opinion Research Allensbach. Nearly two-thirds of men in Germany admitted that their compatriots have achieved full equality. 28% believe that the emancipation has gone too far. 7% of Germans said bluntly that simply can not behave like a man, because such behavior is considered unacceptable.
It turns out that women have made their own. Now dating in Germany, they pay for themselves quite normally refer to if a man invites her home after the first meeting. Why waste time on empty formality? But if a man calls to the cinema or theater - it says that it is set up very seriously.
However, absolutely no romance is complete. Germans can cook and a small gift as a token of attention. However, without beautiful packaging. For registration of a gift in Germany usually have the time or money are not spending.
Swedes - connoisseurs of unusual appointments. Restaurants and relaxing walks in the parks, they do not like. Much more interesting to fly with the girl on the balloon, parachute jump, go hiking in the mountains or drive in karting. Not to mention the fact, to go to the rink, or skiing. By the way, pay for entertainment usually also individually. The Swedes are not greedy, just women there are also independent, as well as Germans.
By the way, an active lifestyle Swedes in general in blood. It is no coincidence they have been recognized as the most sporting nation. According Euromag agency, every seventh Swede actively involved in sports. 33% regularly attend fitness centers. Most of them - it is men. But even if a woman fully shared the enthusiasm of the Swedish men to count on an early marriage it is not worth it - at least to the official. Divorce in Sweden is expensive - why couples choose to live in a civil marriage. Especially that the rights they are exactly the same as that of the registered spouse.
In the late 90s the Americans have come up with a new kind of leisure activities, which is called speed dating (online dating). The essence of the rapid dates simple. The predetermined location is found the same number of girls and boys. Each pair communicates five minutes, then change partners as long as it's not made friends with each other. After each conversation participants write notes, which express their sympathy. If they are mutual, the guy with the girl already agree to meet elsewhere.
Such a method is love clearly characterizes the ratio of Americans to love. They do not like lengthy courtship, do not understand, why spend time on the romantic writing and beautiful promises. To arrange his girlfriend surprises and give flowers are not accepted. Do not wait and that the man definitely holds the girl after the cafe home or invite yourself. Of course, if he did not immediately offer to hold it overnight without any obligations. American women are sufficiently emancipated and slap on the proposal did not meet.
Perhaps the most mysterious female soul for male Japanese remain. In the East, all trying to behave very politely, that in no case does not offend the interlocutor. Women - is no exception. From Khabarovsk Natalia (28 years old):
I am five months met with Japanese and could not understand how it actually concerns me. We met at best once a week. However, he always talked a lot of compliments, but behaved with great restraint.
Temperament and passion - it's not about the Japanese. Especially in humans. And it's hard to know if he sincerely admires, such as your taste in clothes or simply utters the words duty of courtesy. In addition, they do not talk about their feelings. We've been together for almost six months, but he never confessed his love. However, he showed his attention through actions - gave expensive gifts, was very caring and always tried to feel my mood. Only zagruschu, just trying to cheer.
In addition, the Japanese - famous workaholics. My working 12 hours a day. So there is this: find time to date - thus experiencing a serious interest in a woman. Especially when it occurs after work and calling to see next time. But associate with the Japanese life, I did not dare: never learned to understand it.
Even if the Japanese did not like a date with a lady, and he does not want to continue a relationship with her, he will still call her after the meeting, long and hard thanks the following for the evening, to pay compliments and lots of different sweet words. And to call after a date is not interested in his Japanese woman can not once. However, then still gratefully tell you that nothing they did not succeed. This seemingly illogical behavior is explained by the simple courtesy. In Japan it is considered improper to just disappear and leave the lady alone with his thoughts: "Why does not he call?"
The friendly Chinese
The Chinese are very serious about the choice of a life partner. This is one of the reasons that marriages in the country is very strong. The first date in China has been very original. A young man comes to meet not one, but together with a friend. It happens that not one. Usually a meeting is held in a cafe or restaurant. The whole evening each girl tells about the many advantages of a potential bridegroom. Incidentally, according to the tradition of each well and pays the bill. After the meeting a woman is required to spend home, even if it is a man and not liked. If a man wants to continue the relationship, be sure to ask where she wants to go to the next time.
By the way, the Chinese men to treat women with respect, but do not have many of our usual courtesies. For example, do not usually served a woman's hand, helping to put on a coat, opened the door for her. Any touch of the strange woman is generally regarded as an insult. The roots of such behavior back to ancient times. Since ancient times, in China it was believed that any touch to a woman requires a man to associate with her life. Today added to the old tradition and a common emancipation. The usual in our understanding attentions regard Chinese women as an infringement of their rights.