Men's psychology through the eyes of a prostitute
• Men's psychology through the eyes of a prostitute
A former prostitute who claims that slept with more than 10 thousand men, is now helping women to understand the opposite sex and to build relationships. She wrote a book in which he revealed the secrets of the profession and talked about their experiences.
After more than ten years in the industry for adults 39-year-old Gwyneth Montenegro has written a book about his sexual experience.
Montenegro says that the focus of men can be women with all shapes and sizes, not just the stereotypical glamorous ladies.
"A little-known secret is that a lot of men are not looking for the hottest call girls and those who are not classically beautiful, because they are shy and sometimes inadequate." Some men prefer older women to young girls.
In his new book, "The Secret Taboo - The Ultimate Insider's Guide To Being a Financially Successful Escort" ( "Secret taboo - Guide inveterate insider to become financially successful employee escort") Montenegro is not only about the financial side.
"If you have big breasts, then there is a demand. If you have small breasts, then there is still a demand. I would not be too worried about it. "
Montenegro said that it is important for the client to be necessary and desirable for women. And they really wanted to talk to a woman, for which pay.
"A woman needs to look as if she wants it very much a man, even if it is not."
According to Gwyneth, the secret lies in the clothes: the woman should not dress too openly, it must remain a secret.
After 12 years of working in the sex industry of Montenegro said that most of the men came to her not for perverted sex, and to save their relationship. Many customers, she said, just wanted to feel like a man again. Despite the fact that 90 percent of its clients were married, Gwyneth does not feel guilty. She argues that saved many marriages.
"Everything is very simple: a man does not change, if gets what he wants, in marriage. A man can not turn off their biological desires. As one of my clients: "I very much love my wife, but we have sex three times a year, and I'm hot man." Men cheat because they want to meet their biological desires. This is not the "Pretty Woman" - men do not leave their wives because of the call girls. " According to Gwyneth, she was glad to be away from the profession and to teach women how to understand men.
Montenegro said that to the dark depths of the sex industry led her relentless bullying in childhood and a very low self-esteem.
"The school made fun of me because I was very shy. I was an easy target. At that time I still had a very low self-esteem. I was a normal person, normal girl next door, which no one ever would have suspected in class escort. At that time I wanted to earn more money, so all this combined with low self-esteem brought me to the adult entertainment industry. "
Gwyneth began keeping a diary at the beginning of his career escort - 12 years ago. During this time she slept with 10,091 men, writing each such case.
"I recorded it. First - to escape, I thought that I will describe my experience to help you cope with it. "