For student life guide: what you will face in the first year of study

August is almost running out. Yes there in August, at the end of the summer. This means that for those who are still in June, with a bottle of champagne in hand and a red ribbon over his shoulder bawling farewell song school of the hatch limousine and in tears hugged classmates have really start a new life in September. Most of yesterday's schoolchildren still waiting for a completely different story in another city, new people and new circumstances. At times, these circumstances are not always pleasant and predictable. The editors Heroine says is necessary to face the future and female students how to behave.

1. New friends

The first thing you will face, having moved to another city - a new people. A lot of new people, which will certainly be very different and dissimilar. Some of them would be the best of the human race and may even remain your friend for many years. (Not for nothing do they say that the student's friendship is the strongest). And someone wants to use you to achieve your goals. Or you will seem quite different from what he really is.

I remember how in the first year of university, I became friends with Diana. On pair she went exclusively in white ironed blouses, skirts below the knee and businesslike black-rimmed spectacles wise piled on the nose. Imagine my surprise when, after a semester, I was with her and with her "better", at that time, a friend on the other side of town. Trying in a deranged state to take them back to the dorm. In parallel, negotiating with local GOP movement who wanted to knock his teeth to Diana because she was talking with them extremely selective three storeys. I was not a little frightened. Then it turned out that Diana knows just what the relevance and self-feeding. In the morning it is, as befits a diligent student, is sent to a pair, do not forget to take the points. In the evening I went on polumarginalnye Sabbaths, not forgetting to take poltorashku dark unfiltered. By the way, by the third year she began to confuse the "Accessories" and it was expelled. What to do:

Do not take everything at face value. Your friends may not be who they say they are, and bring upon you serious problems. This does not mean you have to avoid each and every side to wait for danger, but caution never hurts. If you realize that you submit with strangers in strange to you, and not a very safe place (country cottage of one of the friends of friends / bar on the outskirts of the city and t.), It is better to give up the idea.

Suggest alternative places for entertainment, where you will feel safe. In any case, you should have an understanding, in what area of ​​the city you go, Save your money for a taxi back (make sure there is possible to call a taxi). Warn family members or someone of her friends where you are and with whom.

If you own "Diana", then do not bring beer into pairs.

2. Adaptation in the team

The University - is, above all, a team: your classmates, teachers, neighbors in the dorm. The team, it is known to be a single organism that lives by its own laws. Each member of the team, often unconsciously, is being tested, after which he plays the role, which is to get away from in the future is difficult. Surrounding you check on the power of nature in the first place: Can you defend your point of view and whether you have your own opinion? Can I play on your weaknesses, do you have any complexes, how big they are?

Most of the groups are arranged as follows: there are leaders approached these leaders (suite), outsiders, which is lowered all the dogs, and all the rest. Already at the stage of love you itself determines what you have. Of course, do not need to talk to new friends down, posed to be rude to someone and use physical force. First of all, try to save face. After all, moral character, in contrast to the physical, gialuronka biorevitalization and can not fix. It is important to remain true to itself, it is certainly difficult to do in a new environment, especially as long as you can not tell who is who. But be ready to defend themselves in a constructive debate. Keep your main weapon - the word. Remember that when meeting people want to look better than it actually is. And there are those who, as the God of Many Faces Seven Kingdoms - has left some people, changing them from time to time.

In our university group was a company "positive" girls who poisoned the existence of many. At the meeting, they always sincerely smile to almost anyone, always leaving the couple compliments about his "potryayayasnom form", "classy phone", "cool pictures" and so on. D. But it was enough to lose vigilance (to go into the corridor of the office, for example) anger changed to mercy, and have dealt with the "terrible tasteless purse", "embarrassingly split ends" guy-loser, and the list goes on. They loved to talk to teachers details of personal lives of their classmates (obviously, suppliers of insider they worked properly) and are often asked to lock the door from the inside to opazduny have not made their way to a lecture.

In dealing with such a pair of assists frank conversations with the exposure. Gossip, they do not stop, but will move to quieter tone. What:

Be yourself, do not change themselves. You can find an approach to every important not to lose the path to myself. If you feel uncomfortable in a number of companies or newly-made friend, if you notice that sacrifice their principles for the sake of other people's opinions, that you really do not share. Think about it, you may need to change not the principles, and their environment. That's the beauty and the new adult life, you are now worth only choice for you.

If you are already a member of the company's "Positive girl in 2018," that before discussing someone behind him, wait until this hidden back behind the door and close it tightly from the back side. In the case of incrimination show a finger against his neighbor, saying, "It's not me."

If you own many faces of God, the more tightly fastens bag to the surrounding did not see its contents.

3. The same "Krasaavchik" or unbridled joy

In the new town, and if he is also a large, handsome things is not even bad. Especially in contrast to the handsome home town will be on every corner. Because the world a new, adult life will become even more attractive. Conveyor parties, get-togethers, and runaway vpisok unexpected adventure awaits you. But all these "tasty" student life bonuses have at least one small, but still a spoonful of tar, neatly deposited on top of a sweet syrup.

The likelihood that you can run into trouble, great. And if we call a spade a spade - it is always present. For example, you go to a nightclub - be prepared that any of the young and not so young party-goers may come to you as soon as the wish and "invite" to the passionate dance. Hearing failure, the reaction may be very far from adequate. Or on the way home from the same club, night city will not let you relax and lose vigilance. It's like in the popular game "When the city goes to sleep, wakes up the mafia." Once on the sidewalk near the roadway is young and attractive girl, who want to "ride" is enough. Perhaps it is even the same party-goers that dance offered half an hour ago at the club. My girlfriend tried three times forced into a car unfamiliar young people. Every time she was able to escape from the "cabs", she had to abandon the extreme walks through the city.

My other cheerful and always positive friend, not wanting to miss the pleasures of life, even your own life hacking developed for such situations. For example, when her stick on the street, she pretends to cry, prihlyupyvaya himself. When asked why she was crying, my friend begins to curse all things, telling about her husband by the name of Ibrahim, whom she, naive, decided to cheat and go to a nightclub without his knowledge. Now Ibrahim furious rushes here and head to her not to demolish, as, indeed, and men who will be nearby. Four times she practiced this life hacking, and four times he worked, do not know if it's magic, luck, or really suitable reception, but the Cavaliers were dissolved in a matter of minutes.

What:

• Walk in night clubs with more companies than the company more, the higher the probability that, in case anything happens, will you, someone to intercede.
• No matter how pleasant stroll through the city after a party with one or with a friend, choose a less dangerous ways to get home - go home on the same taxi the whole company.
• Wear with an authorized self-defense means, such as a gas canister. Just read the instructions carefully before him, so as not to cause unwanted damage to themselves and others.
• Inventing own life hacking or using someone else, remember that you still run the risk.
• If you are really going to marry Ibrahim, do not lie to him.