11 things that you should not write in messages

Logic captures the world: from WhatsApp, Line, Viber and Telegram, more than 100 million users. According to studies, we're less likely to communicate by phone and text messages on the go. And obviously we do not think twice about the fact that we write to them, and in fact are still a situation where a private conversation better than instant messaging. I think we should remember the rules of digital etiquette and to understand what information is best put aside to talk tete-a-tete.

1. The bad news about the health of

Yes, sometimes you just want to avoid a long conversation, but still there are situations where it is difficult to say banal. But the text message does not give a person the opportunity to fully understand the information, and can even give the impression that you do not care about others' feelings. As hard as it was not, you'd better find time to talk in person, especially when it comes to your well-being.

2. Breaking up via SMS

Perhaps the most important rule of rupture - never ceases relationships through communication. Talk face to face. If your relationship was not toxic, it is absolutely safe. So quickly restore you and your partner - to show a drop of respect for the fact that for a while you were dear to each other.

3. Remembering the old argument

Try to refrain from agitating old problems, it is quite a passive-aggressive way, which is not clear to anyone how to react. In addition, through a message you can not convey the tone of his voice and body language, so smska - worst way to scratch an old wound.

4. Notify passwords

You never know who can see your phone companion, and who looks at his text messages - and I'm not even about Big Brother. In addition, the device is easier to hack someone else than you think, so any attempt to send passwords in SMS jeopardize your own accounts.

5. Send sexy photos, if they are not asked to

Sometimes, your interlocutor does not want to get overly explicit messages or photographs, and feels uncomfortable when receiving. Respect boundaries of another person and know his attitude to such reports before sending them.

6. Complaining about your job

All times need to speak about how hard it is at work, but try to refrain from writing. Friends or colleagues can easily become enemies, and then your job will be in jeopardy. Would you like to gossip - spend the evening with a bottle of wine, and no electronic devices nearby.

7. To solve operational issues

Everyone is embarrassed to call up with the chief about important issues, but as soon as you hide behind the soulless SMS - you burn the bridges to his successful career.

8. Spreading gossip

It is impossible to refrain from discussing the scandalous news? Remember that anyone can take a screenshot and send your message. The only thing missing to your negative discussion came to the wrong people. If your craving irresistible - use secret chats Telegram, they are closed by photographing encryption and transmission, and deletes itself within 24 hours.

9. Report on pregnancy

To talk to someone about what you are expecting a baby standing in person, no matter informs you about the partner or friend. Use the opportunity to personally tell the good news and to express their joy with words and gestures!

10. The first declaration of love

The very first "I love you" - an important point for the relationship, and not worth it to spoil. You will not be taken seriously if you pass them something, what's so much emotion through impersonal text message. Only a personal conversation will give the full depth of your heart. Besides, there is nothing more unnerving than waiting for a response to this message.

11. Serious apology

Do you want to make things right - apologize personally. Acknowledge its erroneous behavior and suggest ways that you can solve the problem. Each person belongs to the apology in different ways and require different approaches, to feel that the apology was sincere. And if you do not give it enough attention, most likely the problem worse.